Others get married simply for the fact that they can and will be taken care of financially. They marry solely for the reason that the other individual is in the position to give them what they want on a regular basis. Now, this is a situation that none of us can say is new to any of us.
This is a situation that we find is done by both men and woman. Yes, I said both men and woman. In today’s post, we will be talking about the issue of woman doing this, and in the next post that of men that do this. Either way it is not a desirable reason for a person to choose to marry someone else.
It is especially dangerous for women. Whether or not they have children, it opens them up to different types of dangerous personalities, when it becomes the sole reason why someone decides to marry particular man. She wakes up one day, finding that she is married to someone that she doesn’t really know. For instance, he may be rich and well off, but a mass murder, or have a violent past, or have certain social, emotional or mental disorders. This is only amplified when she finds that she has not only put this person in her life, but if she has children or dependents, she has put them in the way of potential harm as well. We need to warn our sisters from falling into this problem when simply being blinded by potential financial well being.
Now don’t forget, that there is a whole other side to this situation. We will for the sake of time, speak about this other situation in the next part in sha Allah. Make sure to register below now, so that you do not miss a single discussion. Barak Allahu Feekum.