I really do hope that the answer to the last question asked was no. Patience needs to be had with them. Consulting the people of knowledge for real clarification of the issue needs to be done, We need to pull out all the stops when it comes to arriving at the truth and following it. Sitting down with someone that both parties feel has knowledge and getting the proper explanation and understanding is a great way to deal with this problem. There are many situations in which we will find that there are more than one way to look at the situation at hand. It is possible that both opinions are acceptable religiously. In this case, this being in opposition to the Quran & Sunnah clearly is not actually being in opposition. Is it?
-Abu Abdillah Abdul Lateef
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