"The issue that I wanted to address today, is one that we are asked about quite often, which is that of the iddah period that a woman is required to sit out after begin divorced before the divorce is complete and she is permitted to remarry."
"It is almost as though some people want so bad to be the individual that discovers the next person to talk about, that they tend to reach far just to find an excuse to make a claim. What ever happened to the situation of thinking good about one another?"
"We find that people add things, and even take away necessary acts which invalidate the ghusl from the beginning. This most often happens when people are not aware of what is necessary and what is said to be from the sunnan (non obligatory) acts of the ghusl."